Hard to hobnob with (7)

I believe the answer is:

waspish

(Other definitions for waspish that I've seen before include "'Very irritable, like a stinger (7)'" , "Spiteful (with a slender waist?)" , "ill-tempered" , "Sharply irritable" , "Bad-tempered like striped insect" .)

I've seen this clue in the Newsday.

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