Her maid's upset when not properly understood (8)
I believe the answer is:
misheard
'her maid's upset when not properly understood' is the definition.
I can't tell whether this definition defines the answer.
'her maid's upset' is the wordplay.
'upset' indicates anagramming the letters.
'her'+'maids'='hermaids'
'hermaids' is an anagram of 'MISHEARD'.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for misheard that I've seen before include "wrongly caught" , "Picked up by inattentive" , "Chinese whispers are usually" , "as was 1d [KISMET] by Hardy?" , "Picked up bad" .)