Hint husband ignored: impolite to butt in (7)
I believe the answer is:
intrude
But I can't explain it at all! Could you help me understand?
(Other definitions for intrude that I've seen before include "Be unwelcome guest" , "Enter uninvited and unwelcome" , "Join in without being invited or wanted" , "Come in when not wanted" , "Come in uninvited" .)