How Cockney refers to himself and wife (snake) (7)
I believe the answer is:
meander
'snake' is the definition.
(I know that meander is a is a more specific form of the action of snake)
I don't understand the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for meander that I've seen before include "Indirectly move" , "Dear men (anag) - wander" , "Renamed in order to wander in leisurely way" , "Wind (like a river)" , "circuitous route" .)