Hurt? One is distraught in match (9)
I believe the answer is:
harmonise
'match' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
'hurt? one is distraught' is the wordplay.
'hurt?' becomes 'harm' ('harm' can be a synonym of 'hurt'**).
'distraught' indicates an anagram.
'one'+'is'='oneis'
'oneis' anagrammed gives 'onise'.
'harm'+'onise'='HARMONISE'
'in' is the link.
(Other definitions for harmonise that I've seen before include "Sing a pleasing combination of notes" , "Dovetail" , "Combine musical notes to produce pleasing chords" , "Match" , "Reconcile or sing in chords" .)