I dream about taking a hand and getting wed
I believe the answer is:
married
'getting wed' is the definition.
'married' can be an answer for 'wed' (I've seen this in another clue). I'm not certain of the 'getting' bit.
'i dream about taking a hand' is the wordplay.
'about' indicates an anagram.
'taking' is an insertion indicator.
'a hand' becomes 'r' (I am not sure about this - if you are sure you should give a lot more credence to this answer).
'i'+'dream'='idream'
'idream' is an anagram of 'maried'.
'maried' enclosing 'r' is 'MARRIED'.
'and' acts as a link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for married that I've seen before include "having a wife" , "Closely linked" , "Spliced" , "disqualified from new romance?" , "Not single" .)