"I want women / flinging themselves on the coffin / and I want them ____” (I Am Not Sleeping, Roger McGough) (12)
I believe the answer is:
inconsolable
(Other definitions for inconsolable that I've seen before include "Not open to being comforted" , "not easily made cheerful" , "Heartbroken" , "moaning endlessly?" , "Unable to be comforted" .)