I want you to understand it may be men got Ted (4,3,2,5)
I believe the answer is:
dont get me wrong
'i want you' is the definition.
I don't know anything about this answer so I cannot judge whether this works.
'understand it may be men got ted' is the wordplay.
I cannot quite see how this works, but
'understand' could be 'get' (getting is a kind of understanding) and 'get' is found in the answer.
'it' could be 't' (abbreviation. e.g. in 'tis) and 't' is located in the answer.
an anagram of 'men' is 'nme' which is within the remaining letters.
This may be the basis of the clue (or it may be nonsense).
'to' is the link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for dont get me wrong that I've seen before include "Plea for understanding" , "please understand" , "I have no wish to upset you" .)