I’d be unsettled by toying with miss? (10)
I believe the answer is:
misogynist
'miss?' is the definition.
The definition and answer can be both people as well as being singular nouns.
Perhaps you can see an association between them that I can't see?
I don't understand how the remainder of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for misogynist that I've seen before include "Man who hates women" , "I hate women" .)