I'm surprised, upset and unhappy over Carrie's last party (7)
I believe the answer is:
hoedown
'party' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
I can't explain the remainder of the clue.
(Other definitions for hoedown that I've seen before include "US folk dance gathering" , "Barn-dance" , "US party" , "Boisterous American folk dance" , "US country dance" .)