In song, a girl or a man perhaps (6)

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'in song a girl' is the definition.
I can't tell whether this defines the answer.

'or a man perhaps' is the wordplay.
'perhaps' indicates anagramming the letters.
'or'+'a'+'man'='oraman'
'oraman' with letters rearranged gives 'RAMONA'.

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