In the place at which we embrace that woman (5)
I believe the answer is:
where
'in the place at which' is the definition.
'where' can be an answer for 'in the place' (I've seen this in another clue). I am not certain of the rest of the definition.
'we embrace that woman' is the wordplay.
'embrace' is an insertion indicator.
'that woman' becomes 'her' ('her' refers to a woman).
'we' enclosing 'her' is 'WHERE'.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for where that I've seen before include "a question of location" , "A question of place?" , "In which position?" , "enquiry" , "At which point" .)