Integrated in Singapore, do Malaysians put up with it? (1,2,4)

I believe the answer is:

a la mode

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'with it?' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)

I don't understand the rest of the clue.

(Other definitions for a la mode that I've seen before include "all the rage" , "Fashionable (French)" , "With ice cream on top or by the side" , "Fashionable -- served with ice cream" , "Stylish" .)

I've seen this clue in The Telegraph.

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