Intoxicated female this person’s greeting (4-4)

I believe the answer is:

high-five

'greeting' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)

'intoxicated female this person's' is the wordplay.
'intoxicated' becomes 'high' (similar in meaning).
'female' becomes 'f' (abbreviation).
'this person's' becomes 'I've' (as in 'I've', referring to the crossword setter).
'high'+'f'+'ive'='HIGH-FIVE'

I've seen this clue in The Times.

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