Its sting is not in the tail (6)
I believe the answer is:
nettle
'tail' is the definition.
Although both the answer and definition are singular nouns, I don't understand how one could define the other.
I can't explain the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for nettle that I've seen before include "anger?" , "Plant to irritate" , "Annoy - stinger" , "Irritate, annoy" , "Upset" .)