Jar should hold fire (5)
I believe the answer is:
grate
'jar' is the definition.
(both can mean to disturb or annoy)
I can't explain the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for grate that I've seen before include "Rasp; shred" , "Make a harsh rasping sound" , "rankle" , "Rasp; fire holder" , "Shred - jar" .)