Joining together son with family name from Dallas (6)
I believe the answer is:
sewing
'joining' is the definition.
The definition and answer can be both acts as well as being singular nouns.
Maybe there's a link between them I don't understand?
I don't understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for sewing that I've seen before include "Darning" , "Working with a needle" , "Needlework" , "Joining by stitching" , "Genteel pursuit" .)