Like many older siblings (5)

I believe the answer is:

bossy

(Other definitions for bossy that I've seen before include "authoritarian" , "Domineering (colloq.)" , "Autocratic" , "Fond of giving people orders" , "Disagreeably domineering" .)

I've seen this clue in the Universal.

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