Look humble, not stern (3)
I believe the answer is:
bow
'stern' is the definition.
The definition and answer can be both man-made objects as well as being singular nouns.
Maybe you can see a link between them that I can't see?
I can't explain the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for bow that I've seen before include "Genuflect" , "Bend in reverence or submission" , "Incline respectfully; a weapon" , "Part of London" , "Front - show reverence" .)