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Lose one's temper with intimidating woman that's often found in bed (10)

Ross

I believe the answer is:

snapdragon

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'often found in bed' is the definition.
Although both the answer and definition are singular nouns, I can't see how one could define the other.

'lose one's temper with intimidating woman' is the wordplay.
I cannot quite see how this works, but
'woman' could be 'ag' and 'ag' is present in the answer.
'one' could be 'o' (I've seen this in other clues) and 'o' is found within the answer.
This explanation may well be incorrect...

'that's' is the link.

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(Other definitions for snapdragon that I've seen before include "one's found in the garden" , "The blossom" , "one found in bed" , "that's in the garden?" , "Garden plant" .)

I've seen this clue in The Independent.
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