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Make a friendly gesture, we're told, to obtain pet (4,2)

Ross

I believe the answer is:

wink at

'make a friendly gesture' is the definition.
(a wink is a friendly gesture)

I don't understand how the remainder of the clue works.

I've seen this clue in The Guardian.
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