Malagueña Ben dancing is too demanding (12)
I believe the answer is:
unmanageable
'too demanding' is the definition.
I can't judge whether this definition defines the answer.
'malaguena ben dancing' is the wordplay.
'dancing' indicates an anagram.
'malaguena'+'ben'='malaguenaben'
'malaguenaben' is an anagram of 'UNMANAGEABLE'.
'is' is the link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for unmanageable that I've seen before include "Impossible to control" , "Recalcitrant" , "Hard to control" .)