Massage the tough part (3)
I believe the answer is:
rub
'massage' is the definition.
(rub can mean to massage)
I don't understand the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for rub that I've seen before include "Ay, there's the - (Hamlet)" , "Irritate-...the wrong way" , "Remove marks - ... out" , "Abrade" , "Work in" .)