Mean to a girl (5)
I believe the answer is:
norma
'girl' is the definition.
'mean to a' is the wordplay.
'mean' becomes 'norm' (I've seen this before).
'norm'+'a'='NORMA'
(Other definitions for norma that I've seen before include "Bellini opera - girl's name" , "Eponymous woman of opera" , "Roman (anag) - girl's name" , "Game; shared supply" , "Outdoor function" .)