Meeting female over drink (5)
I believe the answer is:
emily
'meeting female' is the definition.
'emily' can be an answer for 'female'. I'm not certain of the 'meeting' bit.
I don't understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for emily that I've seen before include "Woman" , "A Bronte sister" , "- - Bronte, author" , "-- Dickinson, US poet" , "Girl's name" .)