Milder man left with hesitation (7)
I believe the answer is:
gentler
'milder' is the definition.
Both the answer and definition are comparative adjectives. Maybe you can see a link between them that I can't see?
'man left with hesitation' is the wordplay.
'man' becomes 'gent' (gent is a kind of man).
'left' becomes 'l' (common abbreviation).
'with' is a charade indicator (letters next to each other).
'hesitation' becomes 'er' (sound used when hesitating).
'gent'+'l'+'er'='GENTLER'
Can you help me to learn more?
(Another definition for gentler that I've seen is " More sensitive".)