Misfortune to lose nurse by design (5)
I believe the answer is:
motif
'design' is the definition.
(I know that design can be written as motif)
I can't explain the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for motif that I've seen before include "Recurring theme, especially in music" , "Recurrent symbol" , "Main theme in music" , "symbolic ornament" , "Recurring pattern" .)