My, the children deserve praise for it! (8)
I believe the answer is:
goodness
'my' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
I cannot understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for goodness that I've seen before include "Boy" , "merit" , "Quality of being morally good or virtuous" , "Exclamation of surprise" , "Morality, generosity, kindness" .)