Object to friend in a deliberate way (13)
I believe the answer is:
intentionally
'object to friend' is the definition.
I can't judge whether this defines the answer.
'deliberate way' is the wordplay.
'deliberate' becomes 'intentional' (synonyms).
'way' becomes 'ly' (I can't explain this - if you can you should give a lot more credence to this answer).
'intentional'+'ly'='INTENTIONALLY'
'in a' acts as a link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Another definition for intentionally that I've seen is " Following plan".)