One can weaken and still wave it (4)
I believe the answer is:
flag
'one can' is the definition.
The definition and answer can be both man-made objects as well as being singular nouns.
Maybe they are linked in a way I don't understand?
I can't explain the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for flag that I've seen before include "Give a signal" , "Draw attention to" , "Paving stone; iris; tire" , "National emblem; tire" , "Iris - paving slab" .)