One who left you now feeling the strain, reportedly — such is life! (9)
I believe the answer is:
existence
'is life' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
I can't explain the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for existence that I've seen before include "survival" , "A way of living" , "Way of life" , "The business of being" , "State of being" .)