Online poster wife leaves in lurch (6)
I believe the answer is:
teeter
'lurch' is the definition.
(thesaurus)
I don't understand the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for teeter that I've seen before include "Seesaw, totter" , "Sway, as if about to fall" , "Sway back and forth on the edge" , "Move with little assurance" , "Rock precariously on the edge" .)