Outwardly paternal associate? (3)
I believe the answer is:
pal
'associate?' is the definition.
(a pal is a friend)
I cannot understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for pal that I've seen before include "Mate, buddy" , "Bud" , "Friend (colloq.)" , "Buddy, chum" , "Close friend" .)