Overlook the lack of respect (9)
I believe the answer is:
disregard
'overlook' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
'lack of respect' is the wordplay.
'lack of' becomes 'dis' (I can't justify this - if you can you should believe this answer much more).
'respect' becomes 'regard' (synonyms).
'dis'+'regard'='DISREGARD'
'the' is the link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for disregard that I've seen before include "Neglect, ignore" , "Push aside" , "Overlook - inattention" .)