Parents knocked back first man (4)
I believe the answer is:
adam
'first man' is the definition.
(first man in the Bible)
I can't explain the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for adam that I've seen before include "Scottish architect, d.1792" , "who transformed Palladian architecture?" , "Biblical progenitor of human race" , "Father of Cain and Abel" , "Eden man" .)