Party extremes introduce it. Shame! (4)
I believe the answer is:
pity
'shame' is the definition.
(I know that shame can be written as pity)
I don't understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for pity that I've seen before include "Sympathy for the suffering of another" , "Matter for regret" , "Feel sorrow for" , "Ruth" , "Cause of disappointment" .)