Pleased individual by starting oafish row with fierce fighter (9)
I believe the answer is:
gladiator
'fierce fighter' is the definition.
'gladiator' can be an answer for 'fighter' (gladiator is a kind of fighter). I'm not certain of the 'fierce' bit.
'pleased individual by starting oafish row' is the wordplay.
'pleased individual' becomes 'gladi' (I am not sure about this - if you are sure you should give a lot more credence to this answer).
'by' becomes 'at'.
'starting' indicates taking the first letters.
The first letters of 'oafish row' is 'or'.
'gladi'+'at'+'or'='GLADIATOR'
'with' is the link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for gladiator that I've seen before include "Roman prize-fighter" , "Gold tiara (anag.)" , "one entering the ring" , "Roman arena fighter" , "picture" .)