Pop up, just the same (3)
I believe the answer is:
dad
'pop' is the definition.
(both can mean one's father)
I don't understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for dad that I've seen before include "Popular father - a palindrome" , "Pa" , "Mum's mate" , "Popular and informal father" , "Papa" .)