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Proverbial quality that judge has but lord lacks (8)

Ross

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sobriety

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(Other definitions for sobriety that I've seen before include "Opposite of drunkenness" , "Calmness, dispassion" , "Abstemiousness" , "lack of passion" , "restraint" .)

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