Put out daughter’s head of cabbage in rubbish (5)
I believe the answer is:
cross
'put out' is the definition.
(both can mean angry or irritated)
I can't explain the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for cross that I've seen before include "blow" , "severe trial" , "Frustrate" , "Mark; hybrid" , "Get over - feeling angry" .)