Real men excited to find girl (7)
I believe the answer is:
marlene
'girl' is the definition.
'real men excited' is the wordplay.
'excited' indicates anagramming the letters.
'real'+'men'='realmen'
'realmen' with letters rearranged gives 'MARLENE'.
'to find' acts as a link.
(Other definitions for marlene that I've seen before include "....... Dietrich, German-born film and stage star" , "- Dietrich, Ger. actress" , "The late ....... Dietrich, German singer and film star" .)