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Refusing to alter one's view can­not be spoken of around wife! (10)

Ross

I believe the answer is:

unswayable

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'refusing to alter one's' is the definition.
I can't judge whether this definition defines the answer.

'view cannot be spoken of around wife' is the wordplay.
I cannot really see how this works, but
'wife' could be 'w' (abbreviation) and 'w' is present in the answer.
'view' could be 'say' (having a say is having a view) and 'say' is present in the leftover letters.
The remaining letters 'unable' is a valid word which might be clued in a way I don't see.
This may be the basis of the clue (or it may be nonsense).

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