Rubber coat from ASOS worn by that woman twice - husband's always absent (6)
I believe the answer is:
eraser
'rubber' is the definition.
(rubber can mean an eraser)
I don't understand the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for eraser that I've seen before include "An Indian rubber" , "Rubbing-out device" , "Implement to rub out" , "What a poor artist needs" , "(Pencil, ink) rubber" .)