Ruler said to have played with fire (4)
I believe the answer is:
nero
'ruler' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
I don't understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for nero that I've seen before include "Roman emperor who fiddled while Rome burned" , "Emperor, 'burnt' Rome" , "Barbarous Roman emperor" , "He's reported to have fiddled while Rome burned" , "Roman tyrant" .)