Say “ow” after poke: blame husband! (7)
I believe the answer is:
digraph
'say ow' is the definition.
I can't judge whether this definition defines the answer.
'after poke blame husband' is the wordplay.
'after' is a charade indicator (letters next to each other).
'poke' becomes 'dig' (synonyms).
'blame' becomes 'rap' (synonyms).
'husband' becomes 'h'.
'dig'+'rap' is 'digrap'.
'digrap'+'h'='DIGRAPH'
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for digraph that I've seen before include "Such as ph with f sound" , "EU, perhaps?" .)