See papa getting bothered over daughter being placated (8)
I believe the answer is:
appeased
'being placated' is the definition.
(I've seen this in another clue)
'see papa getting bothered over daughter' is the wordplay.
'getting bothered' indicates an anagram.
'over' is a charade indicator (letters next to each other) (in a down clue, some letters go over others).
'daughter' becomes 'd' (genealogical abbreviation).
'see'+'papa'='seepapa'
'seepapa' is an anagram of 'appease'.
'appease'+'d'='APPEASED'
(Other definitions for appeased that I've seen before include "Placated, pacified" , "Changed a deep sap and mollified" , "Conciliated" , "Assuaged, mollified" , "Calmed" .)