See red shirt, with a female wearing it (4,1,4)
I believe the answer is:
blow a fuse
'see red' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
'shirt with a female wearing it' is the wordplay.
I cannot quite see how this works, but
'with' could be 'w' (short for with) and 'w' is located in the answer.
'a' is found in the answer.
'female' could be 'f' (common abbreviation) and 'f' is found within the answer.
'it' could be 'e' ('e' can mean 'electronic' which is similar to 'IT') and 'e' is found within the answer.
This explanation may well be incorrect...
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for blow a fuse that I've seen before include "Get very irate" , "See red" , "Lose one's temper (informal)" , "Hit the roof" , "Explode with anger" .)