Sent a fun cocktail to loosen them up (8)
I believe the answer is:
unfasten
'loosen them up' is the definition.
I can't tell whether this definition defines the answer.
'sent a fun cocktail' is the wordplay.
'cocktail' indicates an anagram.
'sent'+'a'+'fun'='sentafun'
'sentafun' with letters rearranged gives 'UNFASTEN'.
'to' is the link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for unfasten that I've seen before include "Undo" , "tie? No" , "Let go" , "Unlock" , "Nun's fate (anag.)" .)