She makes me repeat myself (4)
I believe the answer is:
mimi
'she' is the definition.
'me repeat myself' is the wordplay.
'me' becomes 'mi' (both are spellings of the musical note).
'repeat' becomes 'm' (I can't justify this - if you can you should believe this answer much more).
'myself' becomes 'I'.
'mi'+'m'+'i'='MIMI'
'makes' is the link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for mimi that I've seen before include "Starving character of "La Boheme"" , "I'm upset twice by the operatic girl" , "showgirl" , "I'm, I'm mad about the heroine in 'La Boheme'" , "La Boheme character (whose tiny hand is frozen)" .)