Sit diner in mess: grub up! (8)
I believe the answer is:
disinter
'grub up' is the definition.
Although both the answer and definition are verbs in their base form, I don't see how they can define each other.
'sit diner in mess' is the wordplay.
'in mess' indicates anagramming the letters.
'sit'+'diner'='sitdiner'
'sitdiner' with letters rearranged gives 'DISINTER'.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for disinter that I've seen before include "Dig up something buried" , "Dig up, say a body" , "Bring up" , "Unearth" , "Exhume a body" .)